Make a diffrens - the true hardest part

These are quotes from:
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=MgqXvVqKIwc

"I will never forget the horrors of what happened to me
 - but they dont make me who I am.
Today I am not a victim -
and we can use the word survivor...
but I am a victor because I have overcome!
I have overcome that which for most of us keeps us trapped"

"Suviving...The true hardest part of the abuse is not
when you are in the abuse it´s when you are out of the abuse
When that person is out of your life...
and keeping that person ut of your life...
and healing...and choosing every day
...to get up and make a difference"